What is EMDR?
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a powerful and effective psychotherapy technique used to help individuals process traumatic memories and experiences. Developed by Francine Shapiro in the late 1980s, EMDR has become widely recognized as a treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and various other emotional challenges.
At its core, EMDR helps individuals process disturbing memories by guiding them through a series of structured steps that involve focused eye movements or other forms of bilateral stimulation (such as tapping or auditory tones). These movements help the brain reprocess traumatic memories in a way that reduces their emotional charge and allows the individual to integrate them into their broader life narrative.
The process of EMDR typically involves eight phases. The first phase focuses on history-taking and assessment, where the therapist identifies the client’s traumatic memories. In subsequent phases, the client focuses on the memory while engaging in bilateral stimulation, which is thought to facilitate the brain's natural healing processes. Over time, this allows the person to develop a more adaptive and less distressing perspective on the trauma.
EMDR has been shown to significantly reduce symptoms of PTSD, anxiety, and depression, and is used to treat a variety of conditions, such as sleep disturbances, phobias, grief, and chronic pain. Unlike traditional talk therapies, EMDR is unique in that it addresses the physiological and emotional components of trauma in a holistic manner. Traditional talk therapy tends to focus more on talking through thoughts, emotions and behaviors, and applying coping skills, where as EMDR comes from within and typically addresses the painful roots of what is currently going on.
I typically use the metaphor of a weed growing in a garden with the weed representing the thing you want to work on in therapy. In order to remove the weed you could pluck it from the flower, or leaves, or even the stem (applying coping skills and talking through what is going on), but it may continue to grow back and require a lot of attention to tend to it. The other option, and more effective option is often to dig at the roots (apply EMDR). By addressing past disturbing or upsetting experiences it allows more capacity to tend to the things you really want to be doing in life, or the actual flowers and fruits in your garden!
Many people find EMDR to be an efficient and transformative therapy, offering relief from long-standing emotional pain and helping them move forward with greater resilience. If you’re struggling with past trauma or distressing memories, EMDR could be a beneficial approach to consider in your healing journey.